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Hey friends and family!
I just wanted to let you know that I now have a blog devoted solely to writing.
For a myriad of reasons, I have decided to go with a pen name, which is Nicki Delone. I believe that it will be more marketable and I don't have to worry about people misspelling or mispronouncing my name.
I'm not sure how I'm going to juggle yet another thing in my crazy day, but for the sake of promoting myself as a writer, it must be done.
This new blog comes as a recommendation from a local literary agent, who said you start promoting yourself WAY before your book ever comes out. Essentially, WAY before you're ever published to build up your fan base.
I'm excited and nervous. I don't want to have a blog that is poorly written or is just lame. I think that my writing is witty enough hold readers' attention. The biggest trick now is deciding what to write about.
Wish me luck. Please stop by for a visit. I'll make lemonade.
http://nickidelone1.blogspot.com/

Cinderella: The Princess Who Rose From the Ashes

Country of Origin: France as told in Cendrillion by Charles Perrault (1697).

Movie Debuted: 1950

What princess brings to the table: Optimism and undying hope

Age at time of Story (in the movie): 17-19

Major Differences Between original story (OS) and movie (M):
The Disney film is almost a direct adaptation from Perrault's story (P). Since I've been reading a lot of the Bros. Grimm (BG), I thought I'd do a three way comparison.

1) M- Cinderella's parents die, leaving her an orphan, in BG and P the father is a widow who remarries

2) Godmother - both M and P show the appearance and helpfulness of the godmother. In BG, Cinderella goes to her mother's grave and cries, then birds tending the grave shower her with gifts of gown and shoes.

3) The slipper - in M and P the slipper is glass. In BG, the slipper is silk. In the brother's version, when the stepsisters try on the shoe is doesn't fit. In order to make it fit so they can marry the prince, the first cut off part of her toe while the second cuts off part of her heel. When the prince sees the blood, he knows they have deceived him.

4) At the end of P's tale, Cinderella has mercy on her stepsisters and sets them up with noblemen at her wedding. Too generous if you ask me. The BG ending is a bit more traumatic. The birds who gave Cinderella her finery, find the stepsisters wicked and peck out their eyes for their dishonesty. I say they missed a great opportunity to get dear old mom.

Moral of the Story/Social Implications:

Cheaters never prosper

Despite the initial pay off, those who cheat and lie eventually get what is coming to them. And paybacks are everything they should be. I'm sure the stepsister in the Grimm tale didn't see those birds coming to peck out their eyes. Let this be a lesson, stay away from Hitchcock's birds and do your best to be honest.

Stepmothers get a bad rap

Disney had a great way of make an evil villain. Unfortunately for all the stepmothers out there, they now have to deal with the fall out. Snow White's evil queen and Lady Tremaine, Cinderella's stepmother are about as wicked as you can get. Its no wonder that children fear their fathers (divorced or widowed) remarrying. I think the stereotype of the wicked stepmother has changed a bit, but the stigma is still firmly attached.
If you are a stepmother, God bless you. Making a blended family work is hard enough with having an unfavorable, albeit stereotypical, reputation trailing in your wake.

Dad has to step up

In the Grimm and Perrault version of the tale, Cinderella's dad is alive. It really makes you wonder what kind of man would marry a woman who abuses his child? I think Disney did us all a favor by take her dad out of the picture. There would have been problems finding anything to like about a man who would sit around and let his daughter suffer. And in the two stories, he does just that. Pitiful.

Kill them with kindness

Cinderella embraced this with everything she had. Not once did she say an unkind word to her family, which in my opinion, they deserved (and much more). She accepted her role without much complaint and was even cheerful about most of it. What we can learn from Cinderella is that kindness will open so many more doors than filling your heart with hatred and ugly thoughts. The girl was a saint. Putting this philosophy into practice is very hard to do and many of us struggle with it. But can you imagine what this world would look like if we all were able to do this?

Hope is hard to kill

I think this is one of the best messages that came from the movie. Despite the horrible turn Cinderella's life veered into, she never gave up on her dreams. I think for Christians, the underlying message is having faith in God. In the case of faith, there is no darkness deep enough that God's light can't reach, though there are times in our lives when we feel the opposite. Keeping faith during those dark times is what allows God's love to come through. I'm a firm believer in the power of prayer. Armed with a strong faith, there can be nothing in world that God will deny us. While your prayers are answered on God's time and fulfilled in His way, he has our best interest in his hands. Blessings in abundance will be poured over us.

Back to the dreams. Children can reap the most benefit from this. A dream of becoming a world renowned painter may be dashed as people criticize and tell the child that he'll never make it, he isn't good enough. Folks, that's life. And it sucks. But if that child continues to dream and perfect his craft and push the naysayers away, then he might indeed achieve his goal. Just because someone says negative things to you, doesn't mean you need to relinquish your dreams. Stay steadfast, learn from constructive criticism and become better for it. Ugly criticism definitely toss in the trash. When the road is littered with obstacles push through, because there is something wonderful waiting for you just down the road.
Here are the lyrics to "A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes." It's a beautiful message I keep posted next to the computer I write my novels on. It helps keep me focused.

A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're fast asleep
In dreams you lose your heartaches
Whatever you wish for, you keep
Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbow will come smiling thru
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
the dream that you wish will come true

Poll Results: Lady Tremaine was voted as having the most wicked heart. Anyone who would lock a girl in a room to keep her from competiting with her daughters, is someone with quite an ugly soul.

Did you know?
There are over 90,000 versions of the Cinderella story around the world.

Final Note: Despite what Cinderella endured at the hands of her stepmother and sisters, she got exactly what she deserved. Her dream of a better life came true and how can you not love a happy ending? Maybe this is why she is a much loved heroine. She rose from the ashes and into a new beginning.

Why?: A Rant

So we went out to celebrate Eric's birthday at a restaurant we rave about. But this time around, there wasn't much nice to say.
The biggest problem was finding food on the menu that Ariel would have eaten. I'll be talking about this restaurant in particular, but it applies to all sit down restaurants in general.
Why, oh why don't these places have options available for little ones (2-5 age range)? It might be a tactic to prevent families with young children from dining or it could be that no one cares. But I'm a mom. I care.
As I perused the menu searching for something to order for Ariel, I was outraged at the lack of anything on the menu. Even a child who was in the target range of the kids' menu (6-12) wouldn't have eaten what they offered. There was no macaroni and cheese for crying out loud!
I quickly searched the side dishes and found nothing that my picky child would eat. Nothing edible in the appetizers either. When the waitress arrived, I asked if there were other options other than what was on the menu (truly, I was looking for a fruit cup/bowl). She proceeded to tell me that I could order a kids' meal and take home what Ariel didn't eat (which would have been everything). Then she pointed out the all-veg side dishes, going on and on about the broccoli casserole they had. Seriously? What child in their right mind is going to eat broccoli, not matter how much cheese is drenched over it?
Albeit to say, until Ariel is like 3, we'll have to bring food from home for her to eat. She did have some fluffy, delicious, honey-butter croissants. So at least someone was happy.

Super Star Birthday!

My honey turned 31 last week! So of course, we had to celebrate.

In October, Eric asked me to make him a Super Mario Bros. cake for his birthday. No prob, I said. Then I saw a picture of the cake (left).

Ummmm....yeah right! So with a little compromising, I made a Red Mushroom cake. It's a classic icon of the video game and with it being on an invincible star board, everyone should know what it is. It's just not the same if you have to explain what it is.

Since I used to watch a lot of Food Network: Challenge, I have been very interested at trying my hand at rolled fondant. Fondant is a type of icing that is commonly used on wedding cakes. It can be molded and handled like clay, but of course, its edible (well, if you can get past the taste anyway).

Some things I would change next time around:

1) in the case of the Red Mushroom, I would use a broader bowl to make a more squat mushroom. The bowl I used made the cake have a bit of an X-rated appearance.

2) use a traditional buttercream for the filling. I made a Swiss meringue buttercream, which tasted great on day one, but when we cut the cake, I think the heat messed with the texture a bit. It was still tasty.

The results of my fondant experiment are below. It wasn't too much hassle to work with and it does give everything a very polished look. If I attempt another fondant cake, I'll definitely cover a sheet cake that way it won't bunch in the back of a spherical form.